Thursday, May 26, 2011

Thankful Thursday: Cell Phone Cameras

I am thankful today for many things. I am thankful for this sweet mama who requested me to be by her side during her labor and birth (not as her midwife, but as her doula and friend). It was incredible and intense and a little unexpected considering she was 6 weeks early.

I am thankful for cell phone cameras when you realize too late that this picture can make an amazing blog post and you have already forgotten your camera.

Keep watching and waiting for me to get her birth story approved by her and get it posted!

Wednesday, May 25, 2011

Wild Wednesday: Facebook

Why is the international breastfeeding symbol so similar to the Facebook logo?
Facebook hates breastfeeding moms.
Okay, so I don't actually know if they hate us... I just know that I had a good friend who had her account deleted after multiple removal a breastfeeding photographs.
I think the breastfeeding logo should be an awesome color- like purple tie-dye. Because, after all, hippies like tie dye and only hippies breastfeed their babies, right??
p.s. how do you spell tie dye? is it tye dye? one word? two words? tie die? tyedie? <---- totally not the last one.

Monday, May 23, 2011

Mommy Monday: Crock Pot Cooking


How often do you use the crockpot as a mom? As a working mother I try to use it once a week. That is one time a week I KNOW my family will have a home-cooked meal.

Isn't that sad? When I say home-cooked I don't mean macaroni and cheese- because obviously that is prepared in my home, but not really a meal.

I am always on the search for new crock pot meals. Do you have any? Any websites that have been helpful to you?

In my search today I found A Year of Slow Cooking
I am thinking I will search this site for my crockpot meal tomorrow.

Sunday, May 22, 2011

Special Guest Sunday: Milkies

How many disposable nursing pads did you use a day when you were breastfeeding in those early months? I think I used 4 changes of breast pads a day for the first month, then maybe 3 changes for the next 2 months, and then finally one set of pads a day until 6 months. Finally after 6 months my breasts stopped leaking every time I nursed and I was able to use the same disposable pad as a "back up" for almost a week at a time.

I never thought about the amount of packaging and waste that I was going through. Now I know you don't have to use nursing pads when you breastfeed, you can use a wash cloth or a burp rag or just leak onto your clothes or baby. You can also use reusable nursing pads, but I always felt I soaked through those to fast and they weren't as easy because they didn't have the sticky backing to keep them in the right spot.

However, with my next baby and nursing process I think I will try to be even more green and go with this "green company" and use Milkies. Here is a description from their website:
Our patented design allows you to breastfeed anywhere without worrying about embarrassing leaks or uncomfortable nursing pads. Slim and portable, no one will even know you are wearing it. Best of all — it collects your leaking breast milk when you nurse, allowing you to store extra breast milk effortlessly.

As an environmentally conscious company, we give breastfeeding moms an alternative to disposable products. The Milk-Saver has exceeded all expectations for functionality and simplicity. It has received accolades from lactation specialists, pediatricians, and breastfeeding moms the world over.

Friday, May 20, 2011

Fashion Friday: Ginger Baby

I love having a "ginger baby"
Her cute red hair makes me smile.
I don't know why I was surprised her hair was red when she was born.
My hair was red when I was little.
My brother has red hair.
Tons of my cousins have red hair.
I know Cara isn't the only baby in the extended family with red hair.
I am sure there will be more too!
For my family, and for all of you moms with Ginger Babies, check out this site!




Check Out the Ginger Baby Shop
They make onesies with cute little sayings for ginger babies. I LOVE IT!
Now I just need to search out a shop for Ginger Toddlers.

Thursday, May 19, 2011

Thankful Thursday: Private Practice



"I took having kids for granted because a 13-year-old girl can do it, because a 75-year-old man can do it. You know who can't do it? ... An overeducated, talented, strong, powerful woman in her 40s. How ridiculous is that?"

I <3 Private Practice (and Gray's Anatomy)... and I really loved Addison's quote from last weeks episode.

It's hard to wrap my head around the thought that some people, for so many different reasons, are not able to have children. I'm thankful today that I have two beautiful children.

Wednesday, May 18, 2011

Wild Wednesday: Botox Mom

I am sure you heard the news about the mom in California giving her 8 year old daughter Botox injections: HERE is the original article.

Mom Gives Botox to 8-Year-Old Daughter: How Young Is Too Young?

PHOTO: Mom Gives Botox to her 8-Year-Old Daughter:  How Young Is Too Young?

Botox injections and leg waxing on an 8-year-old girl, all in the name ofbeauty pageant success, all done by her own mom.

It sounds too unreal to be true, like a storyline straight out of "When Stage Moms Go Bad."

It's not.

It's real life for an 8-year-old California girl.

We spoke with the girl, Britney, and her mom, Kerry, to learn exactly why they turned to Botox, and exactly how young is too young when it comes to using medical treatments for the sake of beauty.

Kerry, who asked that her family's last name not be used, told "Good Morning America's" Lara Spencer that it was actually her daughter, Britney, who wanted to try Botox, a beauty treatment more normally requested by aging women than growing girls.

"We were getting into the pageants," Kerry recalled. "I knew she was complaining about her face, having wrinkles, and things like that. When I brought it up to Britney she was all for it."

So Kerry, a San Francisco, Calif.-based, part-time aesthetician and no stranger to Botox herself, having done the treatment on her own face, began injecting her daughter with the anti-wrinkle solution.

"She had watched me do it before," said Kerry. "So when we first did it she was fine with it."

Kerry typically administers the Botox to Britney through a total of five shots, in three different locations on her face.

But can Botox really make a difference on a young girl who has not even had time in her life to develop the "worry" lines or age creases Botox is typically sought out to erase?

"The few times that we did it, it would lessen the lines," said Kerry. "They wouldn't completely disappear, she's a kid. And we don't do so much to where it's going to make a big difference."

But it's enough of a difference for Kerry and Britney to continue on with the treatments, despite the pain.

"It hurts sometimes," said Britney. "It makes me nervous. But I get used to it."

While Britney thinks about the physical pain, critics in the medical community contend that administering Botox this early raises another type of more lasting pain: the potential for permanent psychological damage.

"Well, when I first heard this story, I think my initial reaction is to be a little bit in disbelief, and a little bit horrified," said Dr. Charles Sophy, a psychiatrist. "There's a lot of psychological damage that can be caused."

Responding to Critics: How Young is Too Young?

Kerry, however, argues that her daughter is a normal 8-year-old, not fazed emotionally, or physically, by the cosmetic procedure.

"Do you see anything wrong with my daughter, psychologically?," she asked. "I don't see anything wrong with her. I have a normal child. It's not breaking her spirit. She's happy. She runs around. She's smart."

And Kerry also takes point with critics in that same medical community who say the Botox could cause adverse reactions in her young daughter.

"I don't do enough on her to make a big difference," she said. "Just on the lines."

The potential for both emotional and physical damage makes critics like Dr. Sophy hesitant to prescribe or administer Botox to children, so Kerry must rely on her own methods to gain access to Botox for Britney.

"I do have a trusted source where I get it. He is a behind-the-scene doctor," she said.

And where there is one "trusted source" for Kerry and Britney's Botox, there must be more. Kerry says she is not the only mother giving Botox to a child.

"I got influenced by some of the moms when we went to one of the pageants," Kerry said about what prompted her to begin Britney on Botox. "They were telling me about the lines on her face. A lot of the moms are giving their kids Botox. It happens."

Beyond Botox?

The tough competition of the pageant world also prompted Kerry to try another type of cosmetic treatment on Britney, one that even middle-aged women find painful: waxing.

"I just don't think it's ladylike to have hair on your legs," explained Britney. "I did that one time. It was super, super hard. It hurts."

"They call it little fluffy hair," said Kerry. "They get judged on all that stuff. It's a tough world, the pageant world, I'm telling you. The kids are harsh."

But even the toughness of the pageant world can't persuade Britney to continue waxing.

Asked if she would do it again, the normally talkative 8-year-old was ready with a one-word answer: "no."

And Britney's mom, Kerry, is similarly defiant when it comes to defending herself against critics who question what she is doing as a mother to her own daughter.

"I'm a great mother. I've taken care of her by myself my whole life," she said. "And nobody can really tell me what I'm doing is wrong. Because it's me. I live in my shoes. And she lives in hers."

"She's a happy kid," she added. "And that's the bottom line."